Romeo & Juliet

In Shakespeare's Romeo and Juliet, Juliet was told she had to marry a man named Paris, a nobleman of Verona. And learn to love him somewhere throughout their marriage.

I think that it is better to fall in love, because when you meet someone and fall in love with them there is already alot of things you like/love about them and alot of reasons you like/love to be with them. And if you already feel that way about somebody and get married, your most likely gonna last.
But if you have to learn to love somebody, then theres probably alot of things you dont like about each other, and maybe dont like being around eachother either but you have to. And you have to learn to like, and love. Rather than be with somebody of your choice.